While I am loathe to give them any additional free advertising, given recent events, I believe what I saw there deserves some attention. (While revising old blog posts to remove a term to which the Botkin's objected, I happened to notice something interesting.) The link took me to their revamped website which features a slider – a ribbon of material at the top of the screen which automatically scrolls snippets of new content across it to catch the reader's attention.
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Friday, September 3, 2010
Finding Grace by the Way of Learning What Grace is Not
What is grace and how does one find it? We all have the sense that we have “fallen from grace,” but how can we get back to that place that we lost and that from which we feel like we’ve fallen? What if we’ve never really known grace at all? I find it quite easy to feel more connected to my failures and imperfections, particularly when I try to measure up to the ideal that others have created for me. Good performance often brings good favor, but that feeling is rare and always fleeting. It never satisfies for very long. It stops when I inevitably show my human nature and acceptance ceases, sometimes bringing the pain of rejection and disapproval. This is not grace. I long for unmerited favor and joy, the expression of unconditional love.
For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves:
It is the gift of God: Not of works, lest any man should boast.
Ephesians 2:8-9
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Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Deciphering and Responding to Loaded, Complex Questions
Vyckie Garrison at NoLongerQuivering.com posted a response to one of the many frequently asked questions she hears in response to her website and those who participate there. Though she now rejects the alleged wisdom offered by the whole of the Quiverfull Movement (QF) and its theology, she loves and celebrates her children, often mentioning the new joy and freedom that the kids enjoy since the family abandoned the legalistic standards it demanded of them all. Vyckie’s latest response and “FAQ” concerns the defensive questions that Christians still involved in QF ask her, though I really don’t find them to be questions at all. Her excellent response is quite moving and should not be missed.
Which of your 7 children would you go back and kill in order to not have lived the life you lived up to this point?
Thursday, January 29, 2009
The Postmodern Decay of Language: Why People Talk More and Say Less
In response to several inquiries, I posted some information postmodernism which has opened up into more questions people have asked me about exactly how language has degraded within our culture. Now, more than ever, a growing number of people speak and use eloquent-sounding language, but their messages demonstrate a gross lack of content. Cults and spiritually abusive groups capitalize upon this process. One astute reader asked me how it is that more and more speakers and ministers can offer content-free speeches and sermons but how few people can recognize that their messages actually lack content. People “sound good,” offering “feel good” rhetoric, but they essentially say nothing and are rewarded for it. This reader asked me about possible sources of information to help them understand more about exactly how communicators manipulate language in order to say nothing.
Saturday, December 13, 2008
More on Church-Speak and Loaded Language

It has been awhile since I last referenced this list of equivocal terms on the Battered Sheep website. I'm surprised that I have not linked to it from my last few posts that discuss the multiple meanings of terminology and how the application of these terms conveys multiple meanings that are used to exploit the members of manipulative groups.
Tuesday, December 9, 2008
Pulling Apart the Ambiguous Terminology of the FIC: “Multigenerational Faithfulness” (The First of Many Posts on the Topic)

I’ve read much about this term “multigenerational faithfulness,” a loaded language phrase created by those affiliated with the Family Integrated Church (FIC) and used extensively by those affiliated with Vision Forum including James McDonald, Voddie Baucham and RC Sproul, Jr. Though I cannot find the use of this specific phrase on any websites related directly to Doug Wilson or the CREC, they do promote and practice the same core concepts using the term “covenantal succession" or some variation of that instead.
Friday, December 5, 2008
The Logical Fallacy of Redefining Terms and Other Boobytraps
A friend of mine noted once that a phase from one of my favorite hymns, “Victory in Jesus,” always makes her laugh because “He plunged me to victory” conjures up the image of a toilet plunger for her. About 95% of the time, when we refer to“plunge” in our contemporary society, we use the word in reference the process of plunging a blocked toilet with a red rubber toilet plunger on a wooden handle. Likewise, when the hymn was written in 1939 and during the time that the author was raised, indoor flushing toilets were still somewhat new in very many homes. As a consequence, the first image to pop into the author’s head was not likely a red toilet plunger, but rather this physical dynamic of water alone. The translation of meaning between the era in which the hymn was written and our current era creates ambiguity.Friday, May 16, 2008
How the Letter and the Spirit of Jewish Law Deny that Women are Property ("The Jewish Way")

Comparing patriocentricity to the practice of Orthodox Judaism according to Rabbi Maurice Lamm in “The Jewish Way in Love and Marriage”
Parenting bestows a profound responsibility and a very sacred trust upon those who marry and are blessed with fruitfulness through children. As previously mentioned, patriocentrics or those within the so-called “Biblical patriarchy” movement argue for a type of ownership of their unmarried daughters. Parents and father's in particular as the head of the household bear legal the legal power and responsibility for their daughters until they come of age and can make their own, independent decisions.
According to Lamm, Orthodox Judaism never views daughters as “owned” or as a type of property of their fathers. An under-aged daughter only requires her father's legal consent if she wishes to marry before she reaches an age that renders her legal autonomy. Consenting to marriage involves no “transfer of ownership” or legal right or autonomy from father to husband when a woman of legal and consenting age chooses to marry.
Expanding upon the previous post, consider this additional evidence that Lamm offers to solidify the concept that marriage only changes a woman's status from “available to all men” as a potential mate to “sanctified” or set apart for marriage to a specific man. There is absolutely no transfer of any ownership or personal spiritual sanctification for woman resulting from marriage, only a change in her status of availability to all men as a potential mate.
Saturday, May 3, 2008
The Selling of an Idea

The topic of language gets into deep philosophical territory, and some of the best theorists have humanistic views, so looking at language itself gets pretty self limiting. I think the thought reform idea/model of a person being comprised of three components (thought, emotion and behavior) is more helpful, as our language and thought is affected by our emotion and our behavior, and no one element can be severed apart from the other.
First Documented Occurance of Thought Reform, "Loaded Language" and Spiritual Abuse
From a reader:“I am going to have to process this deeply. I have really gotten convicted about the loaded language and how much I have allowed it to define the debate.”
“Cindy, I would love to see you expand upon the use of words to redefine people’s beliefs. This is becoming more and more clear to me. I can see how just using the word ‘feminists’ redefines the conversation. All of a sudden one feels compelled to prove they are not a feminists and before they know it, they have aligned themselves with their views.”
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Patriarchy Lecture Part II of VII
“The Development and Practice for Patriarchy:
Cure for Cultural Decline or
New Gnostic Disease”
New Gnostic Disease”
presented by Cynthia Kunsman, RN, BSN, MMin, ND
Part II of VII
Video by Raphael Martinez of Spiritwatch Ministries
Note: Bibliography now posted at UnderMuchGrace.com
Please note clarifications below.
Trinity:
Concerning the Trinity, the Persons of the Godhead certainly do have different “personalities” but the same character and nature.
Neologism:
Within clinical settings, the term “neologism” often refers to creation of new words as well as the use of common words and terms in a unique way that is not consistent with their proper use or definition, such as seen in schizophrenia. Though it did not occur to me at the time, I realized at a later time that this definition and usage may not be consistent with theological or more common definitions.
“Welcome to Normativity”
http://persevero.blogspot.com/2006_08_01_archive.html
Trinity:
Concerning the Trinity, the Persons of the Godhead certainly do have different “personalities” but the same character and nature.
Neologism:
Within clinical settings, the term “neologism” often refers to creation of new words as well as the use of common words and terms in a unique way that is not consistent with their proper use or definition, such as seen in schizophrenia. Though it did not occur to me at the time, I realized at a later time that this definition and usage may not be consistent with theological or more common definitions.
“Welcome to Normativity”
http://persevero.blogspot.com/2006_08_01_archive.html
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Patriarchy Lecture Part III of VII
“The Development and Practice for Patriarchy:
Cure for Cultural Decline or
New Gnostic Disease”
presented by Cynthia Kunsman, RN, BSN, MMin, ND
Part III of VII of the
Cure for Cultural Decline or
New Gnostic Disease”
presented by Cynthia Kunsman, RN, BSN, MMin, ND
Part III of VII of the
Video by Raphael Martinez of Spiritwatch Ministries
Note: Bibliography now online at UnderMuchGrace.com
Please note clarifications below.
“Welcome to Normativity”
http://persevero.blogspot.com/2006_08_01_archive.html
Turretin’s Systematic Theology was used at Princeton in the 1800s and not the 1900s. I corrected a similar mistake shortly thereafter, but I did not specify that I had also misstated this about Turretin as well.
Russell Moore is Dean of Theology at the Southern Baptist Theological Seminiary and not the “Southwestern” Baptist Theological Seminary as I incorrectly stated. (The slide was correct, however.)
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Monday, December 10, 2007
Animal Farm and the World of Orwell
I’ve never seen the film version of George Orwell’s “Animal Farm,” so I recently watched a copy of the older, animated version of the book. I appreciated the ability to be able refresh my memories of this great work through the film, while able to accomplish some other busy work at the same time.
To refresh the memories of the reader here, Animal Farm tells the story of an alcoholic farmer who neglects the care of his animals, so the animals unite and organize themselves, running the drunken farmer off the premises. The animals then take over the operation of the farm, doing the work without the direction of the farmer and having much success, exceeding that of the farm under the direction of the farmer. They rename their farm “Animal Farm” in defiance.
The pigs begin teaching the animals how to read, so that they will be less vulnerable to domination in the future. As with the book that I last revisited about five years ago, I am most impressed with the list of rules that the animals paint on the side of Animal Farm’s barn for all to see. The pigs make their bold statements and new code for living on the barn as a reminder.
The film proved to be the same for me, and perhaps it made even more of an impact by virtue of some of their depictions. I loved the dripping, wet paint. “Four legs good. Two legs bad.” The ruling class, the pigs, paint soon discover the need to amend the list to “cover their backsides” and find justification for their new, human-like behaviors. The rule stating that “No animal shall sleep in a bed” must be modified, for the bourgeois pigs have developed a fond appreciation for the comfort of the farmer’s abandoned bed. T
hey amend the rule with a clause that clarifies their “original” intended meaning so that the rule “rightly” reads “No animal shall sleep in a bed with sheets.” In the film, I appreciate the small detail of an obviously different color and appearance of the paint used to paint the amendment clause.
The rule of “No animal shall harm another animal” must be revised as well after Napoleon, the pig in charge, orders the second episode of execution of his dissenters. How this smacks of Robespierre’s ironic end during the French Revolution!
The rule is amended to read “No animal shall harm another animal without cause.” Near the end of the film and the story, when the bourgeois pigs no longer resemble pigs but look more like the humans they have overrun, they paint the most poignant amendment of all.
To refresh the memories of the reader here, Animal Farm tells the story of an alcoholic farmer who neglects the care of his animals, so the animals unite and organize themselves, running the drunken farmer off the premises. The animals then take over the operation of the farm, doing the work without the direction of the farmer and having much success, exceeding that of the farm under the direction of the farmer. They rename their farm “Animal Farm” in defiance.
The pigs begin teaching the animals how to read, so that they will be less vulnerable to domination in the future. As with the book that I last revisited about five years ago, I am most impressed with the list of rules that the animals paint on the side of Animal Farm’s barn for all to see. The pigs make their bold statements and new code for living on the barn as a reminder.
The film proved to be the same for me, and perhaps it made even more of an impact by virtue of some of their depictions. I loved the dripping, wet paint. “Four legs good. Two legs bad.” The ruling class, the pigs, paint soon discover the need to amend the list to “cover their backsides” and find justification for their new, human-like behaviors. The rule stating that “No animal shall sleep in a bed” must be modified, for the bourgeois pigs have developed a fond appreciation for the comfort of the farmer’s abandoned bed. T
hey amend the rule with a clause that clarifies their “original” intended meaning so that the rule “rightly” reads “No animal shall sleep in a bed with sheets.” In the film, I appreciate the small detail of an obviously different color and appearance of the paint used to paint the amendment clause.
The rule of “No animal shall harm another animal” must be revised as well after Napoleon, the pig in charge, orders the second episode of execution of his dissenters. How this smacks of Robespierre’s ironic end during the French Revolution!
The rule is amended to read “No animal shall harm another animal without cause.” Near the end of the film and the story, when the bourgeois pigs no longer resemble pigs but look more like the humans they have overrun, they paint the most poignant amendment of all.
“All animals are equal,
but some are more equal than others.”
Wednesday, November 28, 2007
Exposing Error Results in Virtual Assasination?

A few months ago, a para church organization called a few critics "internet assassins" and threw around all sorts of other connotative terms. (I'm assuming that the term "internet assassin" refers to one who makes unfavorable comments about another on the internet.)
Perhaps I'm naive, or getting old, but I remember a day when you could passionately debate with someone without the debate becoming personal in nature. I suppose this is more of the way Modernists confronted controversy, and now those rules don't work in our postmodern world.
James Sire in "The Universe Next Door" states that for the existentialist, because truth is grounded in one's experience, "knowledge becomes inextricably bound to the knower." Criticize my knowledge and you've criticized me. Push me towards the logical conclusion of my argument, and if I lose the argument, I've been mortally wounded somehow - literally. Because knowledge is based in my experience, then truth is based in my experience. If my experience is insufficient, then I lose worth and value on a very personal level. The inexperience of a novice becomes a personal flaw and a shameful thing rather than an opportunity to come into greater understanding of truth and maturity. Nihilism is the only logical and ultimate end.
Monday, November 26, 2007
Loading the Language (Lifton 101)

The group interprets or uses words and phrases in new ways so that often the outside world does not understand.
Connotation also plays a major role in the loading of language. A most potent means of loading the language comes through accusations such as "gossip", "rebellion", "Jezebel" and the like, as these are modifiers to be avoided at all costs by membership.
Please review these previous posts regarding the nature of the use of connotation, thought-stopping cliché and neologism to manipulate individuals without their awareness of the process:
Sunday, November 25, 2007
Milieu Control (Lifton 101)
Most simply stated, “Milieu Control” is the control of an environment by controlling the information and activities within the environment.
Pertaining to manipulative and closed groups, this involves control of communication and generation of acceptable information to be disseminated among the membership. Ultimately, the group seeks to control the thought environment of individual members, and it is this internal milieu control that produces the isolation from society at large.
The cognitive dissonance produced by the incongruent messages received from the outside creates the natural desire to withdraw or filter information that does not coincide with information within the group. It’s too draining and stressful to constantly try to reckon conflicting worldviews, so isolationism seen in closed systems of thought is often a necessary adaptation.
Healthy people do filter information, but in closed systems, the group dictates what sources of information are restricted in an effort to maintain compliance and limit dissent. “Love bombing” is a most effective means of recruiting new membership and falls under the category of milieu control. Groups thrive and grow, primarily by their ability to create an ideal environment that members tend to associate with pleasant, safe and nurturing feelings. A utopia can be defined as an ideally perfect place, generally in a social and moral sense. The creation of the idealistic world of rest and special bliss without the cumbersome burdens of life is very seductive.
Most people who have participated in such a group and left, despite the heartaches of their experiences, long for a return to the “feeling” that the manipulative group appeared to create for them. Often, leadership will tell members that their group is the only place where one can find this type of comfort which makes those who enjoy the environment less likely to leave the group. Free exchange of information is tightly controlled by threats of accusation of gossip or "touching not the anointed" leadership in manipulative groups.
Another popular phrase that is often used to discourage critical evaluation of legitimate information within Christian churches is the admonishment to refrain from “sewing discord among the brethren.” This is not a blanket command however and would be an inappropriate response to false teaching and error. Perhaps the most dangerous harm to the milieu of a group occurs as a result of drawing leadership into question. This is a taboo in spiritually abusive groups in particular.
Stories concocted for the purpose of "damage control" (prevent membership from thinking critically about events or arguments that might draw the ideology or leadership into question) also fall under this category so that members are fearful or reluctant to fairly consider information produced by dissidents. Information from outside sources is often criticized and discounted to discourage acceptance by group members. Connotation is a powerful tool in the maintenance of milieu control, often aimed at creating the perception that certain types of information are tainted or dangerous. (See “Biblical Modifiers.”)
Maintenance of group milieu within a closed system, religious or otherwise, is perhaps the most demanding aspects of thought reform and manipulative systems, but it is a profoundly effective one.
Pertaining to manipulative and closed groups, this involves control of communication and generation of acceptable information to be disseminated among the membership. Ultimately, the group seeks to control the thought environment of individual members, and it is this internal milieu control that produces the isolation from society at large.
The cognitive dissonance produced by the incongruent messages received from the outside creates the natural desire to withdraw or filter information that does not coincide with information within the group. It’s too draining and stressful to constantly try to reckon conflicting worldviews, so isolationism seen in closed systems of thought is often a necessary adaptation.
Healthy people do filter information, but in closed systems, the group dictates what sources of information are restricted in an effort to maintain compliance and limit dissent. “Love bombing” is a most effective means of recruiting new membership and falls under the category of milieu control. Groups thrive and grow, primarily by their ability to create an ideal environment that members tend to associate with pleasant, safe and nurturing feelings. A utopia can be defined as an ideally perfect place, generally in a social and moral sense. The creation of the idealistic world of rest and special bliss without the cumbersome burdens of life is very seductive.
Most people who have participated in such a group and left, despite the heartaches of their experiences, long for a return to the “feeling” that the manipulative group appeared to create for them. Often, leadership will tell members that their group is the only place where one can find this type of comfort which makes those who enjoy the environment less likely to leave the group. Free exchange of information is tightly controlled by threats of accusation of gossip or "touching not the anointed" leadership in manipulative groups.
Another popular phrase that is often used to discourage critical evaluation of legitimate information within Christian churches is the admonishment to refrain from “sewing discord among the brethren.” This is not a blanket command however and would be an inappropriate response to false teaching and error. Perhaps the most dangerous harm to the milieu of a group occurs as a result of drawing leadership into question. This is a taboo in spiritually abusive groups in particular.
Stories concocted for the purpose of "damage control" (prevent membership from thinking critically about events or arguments that might draw the ideology or leadership into question) also fall under this category so that members are fearful or reluctant to fairly consider information produced by dissidents. Information from outside sources is often criticized and discounted to discourage acceptance by group members. Connotation is a powerful tool in the maintenance of milieu control, often aimed at creating the perception that certain types of information are tainted or dangerous. (See “Biblical Modifiers.”)
Maintenance of group milieu within a closed system, religious or otherwise, is perhaps the most demanding aspects of thought reform and manipulative systems, but it is a profoundly effective one.
Friday, November 23, 2007
"Biblical" Modifiers and Discernment
Of the many oddities of post-Christian culture, many in the church seem to have also inherited a tendency towards a type of postmodern discernment (or lack thereof). Postmodernism prefers intuitive reasoning and many Christians who have been raised in the era of postmodernism prefer it as well. "Heart knowledge" is preferred to "head knowledge" in many denominations, thus many Christian leaders actually teach this kind of subjective reasoning and validation of truth. Also consider that we are now bombarded with considerably more information that we can reasonably consider, and ideology is now marketed right along with goods and services. If we possess adequate discernment skills, we may have no time or opportunity to objectively evaluate things, especially ideas.We Christians fall prey to this all the time. It’s very easy to assume that when someone uses the same type of religious language that we are talking about the same religious concepts. This is increasingly not the case in our information-driven world. Christians even capitalize on this, using the emotional connotation of certain words and concepts to package their beliefs. Trusting the language of the heart can pull us into subjective reasoning if we are not discerning. Also, if we trust the source of the information, we also let our guard down, assuming that we don’t have to critically evaluate new messages. When we trust language, even when we have great confidence in the source, we make ourselves vulnerable.
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
The Disturbing Return of the Daughters
Here's my second attempt at posting a new comment on Anna Sophia and Elizabeth Botkin’s new film, ”The Return of the Daughters.” I sent my first attempt into cyberspace oblivion. There are so many things about the film that are disturbing to me, and I was amazed to see how “emotionally engaged” my very logical husband became when we viewed it together. We were both disturbed for a wide variety of reasons, probably because the general premise of young women desiring to live godly lives to impact society is such a desirable premise. But like so much of Vision Forum influenced ideology, “you get much more than you bargained for.” I actually thought at one point, that it might be nice to have Dave Letterman’s blink counter set to sound whenever “Biblical” was used as a modifier.
Vision Forum’s description of this film states:
This highly-controversial documentary will take viewers into the homes of several young women who have dared to defy today’s anti-family culture in pursuit of a biblical approach to daughterhood, using their in-between years to pioneer a new culture of strength and dignity, and to rebuild Western Civilization, starting with the culture of the home….. As the home goes, so often goes the church, and society at large. Learn along with Anna Sofia and Elizabeth, the fulfilling, exciting life of impact and accomplishment that young women can and should have. Discover the power of the family unit and a picture of the biblical home as the center of dominion work — a vibrant center of education, ministry, evangelism, culture, entrepreneurialism, and hospitality.
Certainly, this film represents great ideals, and many of them are vital to Christianity, representing core Christian principles. The film presents a vignette of the lives of several young women that either work for their fathers in their own place of business, volunteer or work from home to generate income to help support the vision of the father.
What is more subtle is the reason why these young women are portrayed as shining examples of “Biblical womanhood” that is not directly and obviously stated in the film. The film doesn’t argue their point for the sole purpose of singing the glories of staying at home but as a positive support of their narrow, legalistic interpretation that this is the only acceptable “Biblical” standard for all unwed women.
In keeping with the patrarchical doctrines and practices taught by Vision Forum and the Family Integrated Churches, I think that a more appropriate name for the film would be “The Return to the Fathers,” because I found the focus of the film to be the glorified ideal of the father-daughter relationship. Brothers get a plug in the Extras section, but mothers barely appear on camera. After the focus on the first young woman and her family, there were few mothers on screen. I do specifically recall the mother of one of the girls appearing in the film, but only in portrait where she is shown embracing the girl’s father.
If examining the content of the film, the focus is not on family or home, so the “Return of the Daughters” calls really for a return of daughters to return home to their father’s vision for them. The Botkin girls stare hypnotically into the camera with come-hither gazes, and everyone else is interviewed in documentary style, looking away from the camera’s eye. There’s been discussion on some blogs about the disturbing nature of some of this technique, especially when some interviewed demonstrate some unnatural lack of eye movement. Some people are trained to control eye movement to conceal information about the truthfulness of their statements, although this might have been due to the use of a teleprompter. This is a great distraction in the film, especially in the Extras sections where Geoff Botkin and Doug Phillips explain the “Biblical Foundations” for the belief system that they advocate in the film.
The Visionary Daughters website posted a clip of this section online, but it was coincidentally removed after only a day.
My husband was quite incensed over some of the poorly chosen language used in a particular clip within the “Courtship and Marriage” section, also included in the Extras on the DVD. If anyone has an opportunity to watch it, I would like to hear feedback on that section specifically via private correspondence.
My husband was actually offended by some of the just poorly worded commentary in that section. In fact, I think that it’s so disturbing, unless interpreted with previous knowledge of the subject of courtship and within the mindset of the Christian community that embraces the courtship model, I will not present the transcript of that section here. I interpreted that section with understanding of the intent of the speaker, but I have grave concerns that those outside of patriarchy’s influence would not be so kind in evaluating it.
What is more subtle is the reason why these young women are portrayed as shining examples of “Biblical womanhood” that is not directly and obviously stated in the film. The film doesn’t argue their point for the sole purpose of singing the glories of staying at home but as a positive support of their narrow, legalistic interpretation that this is the only acceptable “Biblical” standard for all unwed women.
In keeping with the patrarchical doctrines and practices taught by Vision Forum and the Family Integrated Churches, I think that a more appropriate name for the film would be “The Return to the Fathers,” because I found the focus of the film to be the glorified ideal of the father-daughter relationship. Brothers get a plug in the Extras section, but mothers barely appear on camera. After the focus on the first young woman and her family, there were few mothers on screen. I do specifically recall the mother of one of the girls appearing in the film, but only in portrait where she is shown embracing the girl’s father.
If examining the content of the film, the focus is not on family or home, so the “Return of the Daughters” calls really for a return of daughters to return home to their father’s vision for them. The Botkin girls stare hypnotically into the camera with come-hither gazes, and everyone else is interviewed in documentary style, looking away from the camera’s eye. There’s been discussion on some blogs about the disturbing nature of some of this technique, especially when some interviewed demonstrate some unnatural lack of eye movement. Some people are trained to control eye movement to conceal information about the truthfulness of their statements, although this might have been due to the use of a teleprompter. This is a great distraction in the film, especially in the Extras sections where Geoff Botkin and Doug Phillips explain the “Biblical Foundations” for the belief system that they advocate in the film.
The Visionary Daughters website posted a clip of this section online, but it was coincidentally removed after only a day.
My husband was quite incensed over some of the poorly chosen language used in a particular clip within the “Courtship and Marriage” section, also included in the Extras on the DVD. If anyone has an opportunity to watch it, I would like to hear feedback on that section specifically via private correspondence.
My husband was actually offended by some of the just poorly worded commentary in that section. In fact, I think that it’s so disturbing, unless interpreted with previous knowledge of the subject of courtship and within the mindset of the Christian community that embraces the courtship model, I will not present the transcript of that section here. I interpreted that section with understanding of the intent of the speaker, but I have grave concerns that those outside of patriarchy’s influence would not be so kind in evaluating it.
The Term "Biblical" Becomes a Thought Stopping Cliche?
Patriarchy and the Family Integrated Church crowd often use connotation and neologism to communicate a concept without all the negative connotation, but they get their ideas across.
How do they do that?
This is a response that I posted elsewhere online in response to a comment of the use of the term "non-normative" as a term that is understood to be "sin." Likewise, in a positive sense, the word "Biblical" is also used to connotate anything that is unquestionably good. Here is the response that I gave, basically as a demonstration of how Cialdini's "weapons of influence" can be used against us in religious or worship settings and how neologism and connotation play into this subtle form of manipulation.
Connotation and neologism is a technique of thought reform. Satan has been doing it since the Garden of Eden (”Ye shall not SURELY die…”). Call it beguiling, call it manipulation, call it spiritual abuse, call it propaganda, call it newspeak, call it patriospeak or patriobabble. What is it? Maybe it’s worse than original sin? And unsuspecting people eat it right up, especially in the age of postmodern advertising and kitsch. It’s a religious version of a shopping network, selling ideas (and grenades) by capitalizing on image.
It’s subtle. The litigious can say that they have not claimed that when they said A that they meant B, while everyone (outside of their influence of title and position) knows that A and B are the same things and are used in the same way.
The amazing thing about the process is that it causes cognitive dissonance.
Because the very nature of what they say about A and B is the same and yet contradiction, the critical thinking process in your brain pauses because of the congruences. This puts a person in a highly suggestible state. It can be dangerous if you are not very determined to stand by your doubts, because the very confusion that is created by the statements makes one easier to manipulate. Now, put this in the context of a sermon, where you are constrained from questioning and naturally want to conform to the group.
Social proof makes it tremendously hard to resist, all while trying to figure things out. It pulls your proverbial legs out from under you. Now have an authority figure call you up in front of the congregation for some reason. Say it is for an object lesson or demonstration of a point the authority is trying to make. Humans like to respond to authority, as a general rule. There you have both authority as a pressure compounded with social pressure.
And what if you really like your authority? We tend to comply when we like the person that has petitioned our compliance. What if he has done the same type of thing for us in the past? (He’s served as a participant in sermons that I’ve preached…) That’s reciprocity at work. Throw that into the mix when they are trying to sell you a contradictory idea. The pressure is tremendous.
Okay, throw “non-normative” out there for people under these circumstances, with all these pressures at work. Hear “non-normative” a couple of times, and cognitive dissonance demands attention and seeks the path of least resistance to alleviate the psychological stress that the discontinuity produces. It will do so by just accepting the term without criticism or thought about how it is used. You now understand that non-normative means sin.
These neologisms (Or as Doug Phillip reportedly states “He who defines, wins”) actually stop your critical thought. They present only one thinkable alternative then, and use emotion to blackmail their followers into accepting their alternative. This is very akin to bounded choice, when you believe you have reasonable choices, but those alternatives are presented in a way that really offers no viable choice. Every time a person hears that term, their critical thinking just stops. This is what Lifton termed “Loading the Language.” If you want to sell an ideology, you have to have a slogan and buzz terms. They are powerful weapons against the unsuspecting.
Because the very nature of what they say about A and B is the same and yet contradiction, the critical thinking process in your brain pauses because of the congruences. This puts a person in a highly suggestible state. It can be dangerous if you are not very determined to stand by your doubts, because the very confusion that is created by the statements makes one easier to manipulate. Now, put this in the context of a sermon, where you are constrained from questioning and naturally want to conform to the group.
Social proof makes it tremendously hard to resist, all while trying to figure things out. It pulls your proverbial legs out from under you. Now have an authority figure call you up in front of the congregation for some reason. Say it is for an object lesson or demonstration of a point the authority is trying to make. Humans like to respond to authority, as a general rule. There you have both authority as a pressure compounded with social pressure.
And what if you really like your authority? We tend to comply when we like the person that has petitioned our compliance. What if he has done the same type of thing for us in the past? (He’s served as a participant in sermons that I’ve preached…) That’s reciprocity at work. Throw that into the mix when they are trying to sell you a contradictory idea. The pressure is tremendous.
Okay, throw “non-normative” out there for people under these circumstances, with all these pressures at work. Hear “non-normative” a couple of times, and cognitive dissonance demands attention and seeks the path of least resistance to alleviate the psychological stress that the discontinuity produces. It will do so by just accepting the term without criticism or thought about how it is used. You now understand that non-normative means sin.
These neologisms (Or as Doug Phillip reportedly states “He who defines, wins”) actually stop your critical thought. They present only one thinkable alternative then, and use emotion to blackmail their followers into accepting their alternative. This is very akin to bounded choice, when you believe you have reasonable choices, but those alternatives are presented in a way that really offers no viable choice. Every time a person hears that term, their critical thinking just stops. This is what Lifton termed “Loading the Language.” If you want to sell an ideology, you have to have a slogan and buzz terms. They are powerful weapons against the unsuspecting.
Sunday, November 11, 2007
Hostile Imaginations & Faces of the Enemy
What does it take for the citizens of one society to hate the citizens of another society to the degree that they want to segregate them, torment them, even to kill them? It requires a ‘hostile imagination,’ a psychological construction embedded deeply in their minds by propaganda that transforms those others into “The Enemy.” That image is a soldier’s most powerful motive, one that loads his rifle with ammunition of hate and fear. That image of a dreaded enemy threatening one’s personal well-being and the society’s national security emboldens mothers and fathers to send sons to war, and empowers governments to rearrange priorities to turn ploughshares into swords of destruction.
Labels:
fascism,
neologism/language,
techniques,
tolerance,
Zimbardo
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