Those Pesky Internet Assassins! |
I must admit that I didn't read his
blog entry very deeply. I found it to be quite disjointed, difficult
to follow, and it was especially difficult to get beyond its
offensiveness. The author claimed that the 100+ girls who have
formed a supportive community of survivors of the abject abuse that
they suffered at HH were all liars or had greatly exaggerated their
experiences to make them seem abusive when they were not. I'm not
sure that he offers a motive, though I have read that people claim
that the girls, former HH residents, were just rebelling against good
discipline and that they harbored bitterness against their
God-ordained authorities and against Williams in particular. They
wanted to “do their own thing,” and they didn't want to answer to
anyone for their actions, so they remained angry about it without
cause for decades on end, I suppose. This blogger wants his readers
to believe that the girls found
one another some twenty or more years after they left the
boarding home and reunited online for the sole purpose of expressing
their alleged long-harbored and unsubstantiated angst.
Despite the fact that many women who
were incarcerated at HH over the past 40 years have given online,
public testimonies by name, the individual who wrote the blog
commentary specifically stated that the critics of HH were liars who
hid behind anonymity. As one who has been quite outspoken concerning
Ron Williams and HH, I am also another who is most definitely not
anonymous. Anyone who points this out to him in the comments section
is called a liar and he accuses those who challenge him of also
falsely accusing him of being a liar. As Lewis Wells describes it at
The
Commandments of Men blog, the man demands of survivors to
essentially,“Show me the blood or shut
up,” denying
that people commenting there were lying about being at HH.
Apparently, there's some great conspiracy to discredit Ron Williams
without true, legitimate cause. He characterizes them like a bunch
of restless and bored teens who are looking for some destructive
diversion, and Ron Williams has become an unfortunate and undeserving
target.
Blind
Devotion
His responses to HH survivors who commented on the blog show a great deal of recalcitrance and a complete lack of consideration for any other viewpoint but his own. I almost feel embarrassment for him because his reactions demonstrate true cruelty and what I can only call an obvious ignorant and adversarial attitude to those who have offered polite but understandably passionate comments. Why? I think that you only ever intimidate the weak.
In the past, I've written about
confirmation
bias at some length, and I believe that this person demonstrates
such. People tend to only accept the material as factual that
confirms what they already believe, and like all people, I tend
towards this as well. In addition, we tend to also work to discount,
dismiss, and deny any information that contrasts, contradicts, or
challenges what we hope to find to be true and that which we already
believe. Toward that end and to verify his own predetermined
beliefs, this blogger who championed HH this week dismissed
communications from people who had negative opinions of HH, but he
cherry picked and affirms the lonesome testimony of Lucinda
Pennington who gives glowing reports about her own time at HH. He's
picked the minority who weighs in as only 1% of the people who have
come forward to talk about conditions at HH, and he accepts only her
views because they confirm his own. (I think someone
once called this the tickling of itchy ears.)
Note: Read more about Lucinda HERE in Part I and in Part II of just one of her online testimonies which are not always that consistent, depending where you look. Notice my own confirmation bias? :)
Sadly, manipulators conceal the truth
from people from whom they can benefit from in some way, and then
they play upon the loyalty of good people by exploiting their trust.
This seems to be the case with this blogger who chooses to stand by
Ron Williams, and in doing so, he chooses a position which condemns
wounded lambs. People like Williams use the good character and the
strong trait of loyalty of such followers, probably a very admirable
quality that this man possesses and lives.
But is that loyalty
misplaced or unwarranted? It seems to be a question that the blogger
fights hard to avoid. Many people devote themselves to leaders, and
frankly, who really wants to think ill of a minister? I think that
even people who are not religious feel disappointed when religious
leaders, particularly Evangelical ministers fail to live up to
standard expectations of virtue. Christians have even more reason to
find honor and virtue in ministers, seeking to take no joy in the
sins of others. It is a tremendously hard thing to overcome, and
this type of trust can be easily exploited.
Exploring the Development of
Doctrine Over Person:
How
does it facilitate mind control?
In
the previous post, I mentioned that I plan to explore why people
who shared the same environment and the same general experiences
could possibly have entirely different and disparaging views about
matters. If you haven't read the post, I highly recommend that you
take the time to do so. Trauma, stress, and social pressure feed
into and facilitate what has been called Doctrine Over Person, a
technique of the larger process of mind control either deliberately
used or functionally created by manipulators that cause a person to
recreate and redact their personal history and memory. In future
posts, I will explore Doctrine Over Person using Lucinda as an
example of the phenomenon.
Taking the Risk of Feeding the
Frenzy
I'm always reluctant to give such
critics much attention – the reason why I hesitated to post a link
to the blogger and his post about what he calls “Hephzibah
Haters.”. Do you give such people attention, even if it is through
criticism? Sometimes that's a tough call, because it often just
encourages them to produce more rebuttal. Many only become more
polarized and see the attention as righteous persecution. I'd hate
to help create online statistics which might be interpreted as
popularity of his writings, perhaps encouraging him to write more
with what was once called a poison pen. Perhaps now, we have
fettered fonts or tainted text.
[9Jan12 Edit/Update]
Please keep reading here: there will be
more to come. In the meanwhile, you might wish to follow up with
more reading at Chuckles
Travels who posted on this topic on Friday, as did Lewis
Wells and Incongruous Circumspection.
ADDITIONAL RESOURCES and INFORMATION
Please listen to all of the Jocelyn Andersen's Blog Talk Radio episodes about Hephzibah House
- Hidden Abuses in the Baptist Church Part I: The 20/20 Episode (introduction to Hephzibah House)
- Hidden Abuses in the Baptist Church Part II: An interview with Susan Grotte (a 29 month resident in the early 1980s)
To learn more about Hephzibah House, please link to these additional resources:
- Jeri Massi's Lambs of Hephzibah House podcasts
- Hephzibah Girls Blog (Susan Grotte's blogspot; This site includes copies of documents distributed to families by Ron Williams.)
- Former Hephzibah Girls (Visit their links page for more links on activism.)
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- FACEBOOK